你最欣賞或喜歡另一個人的哪些品質_風聞

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Viren Sharma, Civil Engineer at JMCC

When they don’t do any kind of back bitching.

When their eye actually mean what their words are delivering.

When they genuinely become happy by seeing others getting more successful than them.

When they proudly accept their religion.

When they are same inside out.

When they deny to cave in front of peer pressure.

他們從不在背後埋怨；

他們的眼睛透露出他們所説的話。

他們看到別人比他們自己更成功能真誠的為之高興。

他們驕傲地接受自己的宗教信仰。

他們從裏到外都一樣。

他們拒絕在同伴壓力面前屈服。

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Sanyukta, B.Sc. Computer Science Engineering, University of Wisconsin - Madison (2023)

I have a Muslim friend called Farhan.

I’m going back to the time when we were only beginning to become friends.

At that point, I had some strong opinions regarding other Muslims that I knew and told him how I thought that Islam didn’t treat their women right.

When I’ve seen people expressing negative emotions about a different religion, the other party almost always gets super offended.

Farhan? Not at all. In fact, he agreed with me on several points that I mentioned that I’m sure would’ve offended my other Muslim friends.

Once we were discussing Hinduism and I was enlightening him with Hindu customs and beliefs.

He was fascinated, and not just that, he even decided to add reading the Bhagavad Gita to his reading list.

I was surprised.

Pleasantly so.

Farhan’s a Muslim guy who does his prayers every day. But he’s open-minded enough to know and believe that delving into another religion does not make him a non-Muslim.

我有一個穆斯林朋友叫法罕（Farhan）。

我要回到我們剛開始成為朋友的時候。

那時，我對我認識的其他穆斯林有一些強烈的看法，我告訴他，我認為伊斯蘭教沒有正確對待他們的女性。

當我看到人們對不同的宗教表達負面情緒時，對方几乎總是非常生氣。

而法罕一點也不生氣。事實上，他同意我提到的幾點，我確信這會冒犯我的其他穆斯林朋友。

有一次我們在討論印度教，我用印度教的習俗和信仰來啓發他。

他被迷住了，不僅如此，他甚至決定把閲讀《博伽梵歌》加入他的閲讀清單。

我很驚訝，但為之高興。

法罕是一個每天都做祈禱的穆斯林。但他思想開放，知道並相信鑽研其他宗教並不能使他成為非穆斯林。

Which qualities do you most admire or like in another person?

Open-mindedness and conscience clear of age-old illogical customs are what makes me instantly like the person.

Farhan and I have grown to be best friends and I couldn’t have asked for a more amazing person like him in my life.

PS: My opinions about Islam may or may not have changed, but it does not make me love my fellow Muslim people any less. Just wanted to make it clear as crystal.

你最欣賞或喜歡另一個人的哪些品質？

開明的思想和對古老不合邏輯的習俗的清醒的認知使我立刻喜歡上了這個人。

他和我已經成為了最好的朋友，在我的生活中，我再也找不到一個像他這樣令人驚歎的人了。

附註：我對伊斯蘭教的看法可能有改變，也可能沒有改變，但這並沒有減少我對穆斯林同胞的愛，我只是想把事情説清楚。

Vijeta Anand, Associate at PwC US (2017-present)

Being adaptable to keep oneself happy.

It is a trait that not only allows you to be happy in the worst of the situations but also make the life of others around you a little bit better. There are people who can stand by the vast sea and complain about the humid weather whereas there are others who might look for a slight hint of light within a dark room.

I believe that there are times when we feel miserable and it is human to feel so, but letting that feeling hover over you and cringing about it day in and day out will only have worse effect.

適應能力強，使自己快樂。

這種特質不僅能讓你在最糟糕的情況下感到快樂，還能讓你周圍的人的生活變得更好一點。有些人站在浩瀚的大海邊會抱怨潮濕的天氣，而另一些人可能會在黑暗的房間裏去尋找一絲光亮。

我相信有時我們會感到痛苦，這是天性，難免都會遇到，但讓那種感覺縈繞在你心頭，日復一日地為之畏縮不前，只會產生更糟糕的效果。

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Kelley Spartiatis, Common sense and strong opinions, that’s me.

Without thinking about it at all, I admire people who are optimistic, hopeful, kind, empathetic, intelligent, honest, fun and funny too!

I also admire people who are open about their feelings and able to show it.

I admire people who are forgiving but aren’t a pushover either. I don’t like that kind of weakness.

Strength is an important quality but strength comes in many forms. The strength that matters to me is strength of character not physical strength.

One of the most important qualities for me is that a person can admit when they are wrong. I can’t and won’t deal with people who think they are perfect. 

不用多想，我欣賞那些樂觀、滿懷希望、善良、有同情心、聰明、誠實、奮進和有趣的人!

我也欣賞那些對自己的感情開誠佈公並能夠表達出來的人。

我欣賞那些寬容但不容易被説服的人，我不喜歡軟弱。

力量是一種重要的品質，但力量有多種形式。對我來説重要的力量是性格上的力量，而不是體力。

對我來説，一個人最重要的品質之一就是敢於承認自己的錯誤。我不能也不會和自認為完美的人打交道。。

Aditi Balduwa, Perennial learner | Perpetual reader | Constant observer.

The people who function on logic.

The problem-solvers. You give them any situation and they will break it down into logical pieces and simplify it to you in no time. 

They make you see that the problems which you were considering as mammoth can actually be easily solved if you change your perception and think more logically.

They are so uncomplicated and aware that this is the situation, these are the pros and cons, these are favourable options, these can be the outcomes and so these are the steps to follow to reach them.

They don`t fret over issues. Advices from such people are often worth it because it either gives you a way to your solutions or a way to think towards solutions.

Its rare that somebody can be so obxtive and unambiguous.

那些靠邏輯做事的人。

解決問題者。他們遭遇任何一種情況，他們都會把它分解成有邏輯的部分，然後很快地把它簡化出來。

它們讓你看到，如果你改變你的看法，帶有邏輯地去思考，那些你原本認為是難搞的問題實際上可以很容易地被解決。

其實他們如此簡單，然後意識到情況就是這樣：有利和不利部分、有利的選擇和結果都清晰明瞭，還有就是達到目標的步驟也非常清晰。

他們不為問題而煩惱。來自這些人的建議通常是值得的，因為它要麼給你提供了一種解決方案的方法，要麼給你提供了一種解決方案的思考方法。

很少有人能如此客觀和明確。

Vidhya Bharathi, Ph.D Biotechnology, Indian Institute of Technology, Hyderabad (2020)

Vidhya Bharathi，生物技術博士，印度理工學院，海德拉巴(2020)

To give love unasked,

To converse without making it all around themselves,

To genuinely listen when the other is low and want to talk,

To narrate the stories of the world with gleaming eyes,

To intimately understand the secrets of equality and stand by it,

To subscribe to responsiblities without guilt,

To know when to give a great hug and silence,

To never take love and kindness for granted,

To stay when someone needs,

To have courage to be vulnerable,

To love this world just enough to wake up to another day with hope.

不求回報地給予愛，

在不圍繞自己的情況下交談，

當對方情緒低落想説話時，真誠地傾聽，

用閃爍的眼睛講述世界的故事，

深入瞭解平等的秘密保守秘密，

勇於承擔責任，

知道什麼時候該主動，什麼時候該沉默，

永遠不要把愛和友善視為理所當然，

在有人需要的時候留下，

要有勇氣面對脆弱，

愛這個世界，只為帶着希望醒來迎接新的一天。