日常生活：一個人一生中最有價值的技能是什麼？_風聞

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Anubha Saxena, HR- Executive at Hindustan Unilever

Learn to be happy alone. If you master this skill, trust me, nobody can take away your happiness from you. Be your own best friend, enjoy your own company, and be happy. If you master this skill, eventually you will start appreciating people in your life!

獨自一人時要學會快樂。如果你掌握了這項技能，相信我，沒有人能奪走你的快樂。做自己最好的朋友，享受自己的陪伴並快樂着。如果你掌握了這項技能，最終你會開始欣賞生活中的人！

Shubham Sagar, LL.B Faculty of Law, University of Delhi (2020)

The ability to express your thoughts.

Seriously, I believe this is something most of us lack. It’s extremely important for a person to learn to put into words, what he thinks. It makes a relationship last. It creates an impression on the person you’re talking to. It gives you a chance to explore what others think about your ideas. It lets you answer questions on Quora in a way other people understand.

Although I’m no expert, I can say that you can always develop this skill simply by learning to talk without fear. Talk to a stranger, a fellow passenger on a train or your child-hood crush, they won’t mind (I’m not sure about your crush, though). That way, you’ll be forced to express your thoughts as clearly as possible. And that’s exactly how you learn the art of expressing yourself and your ideas!

So, go out, talk to someone. Unleash your mind. Express yourself!

表達想法的能力。

説真的，我相信這是我們大多數人都缺乏的。 對於一個人來説，學會用語言表達他的想法是極其重要的。 它能使一段關係保持長久。 它會使與你交談的人留下印象。 它讓你有機會探索其他人對你的想法的看法。 它讓你用其他人可以理解的方式回答 Quora 上的問題。

雖然我不是專家，但我可以説，只要學會無所畏懼地説話，就可以培養這種技能。 與陌生人、火車上的乘客或你童年時的暗戀對象交流，他們不會介意（不過我不確定你的暗戀對象介不介意）。 這能逼你儘可能清楚地表達你的想法，而且這也確實能讓你學到表現自我和自己想法的藝術！

所以，出去找個人談談吧。釋放你的思想。表達你自己！

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María Sefidari, love to learn about Human behavior every day

Resilience.

At one point or another of your life, you will fall. You will not get that job you so wanted, someone will break your heart, someone dear to you will die, you may be betrayed, see no way out…

The point is, you will feel like the ground has shaken under your feet. You may lose faith in everything and see everything black. No hope of pulling out.

Being able to rebound from that, to not let it sink you, to reinvent yourself and pull your life up and forward… That’s the best skill you may ever learn. Failure is inevitable, a part of life. Defeat is optional.

恢復力。 

在你生命的某一時刻，你會跌倒。你得不到你想要的工作，有人會傷你的心，你親近的人會死去，你可能會被背叛，無路可走……

關鍵是，你會覺得腳下的土地在搖晃。你可能對一切失去信心，看到一切都是黑暗的。沒有走出來的希望。

要能夠從失敗中恢復過來，不要讓失敗擊垮你，重新塑造你自己，讓你的生活向上向前。這可能是你學到的最好的技能了。失敗是不可避免的，是生活的一部分。失敗是可以選擇的。

Jay Mehta, Customer Success & Growth @ Host4Geeks

Stop thinking about what other people think of you.

1. In all honesty, no one cares.

You’re not special. It is a vicious circle. We go through our days thinking of what the other person is thinking of us. At the same time, that “other person” is thinking about what you think of him and no one has the time to actually think about anyone.

2. “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”

You will never be able to please everyone. You will always be judged. But what is the worst thing that can happen when someone judges you?

Yes, that’s the right answer.

Nothing.

3. Live YOUR life, not a life that OTHERS want you to live.

Stop shaping your life on the basis on what others think of you and how others want to see you.

不要再去想別人怎麼看你了。

1.老實説，沒人在乎。

你並不特別。這是一個惡性循環。我們每天都在想着別人對我們的看法。同時，“另一個人”也在想着你對他的看法，沒有人有時間真正去想別人什麼樣。

2.“我不知道成功的關鍵是什麼，但失敗的關鍵是試圖取悦所有人。”

你永遠無法取悦所有人。你將永遠被評判。但當有人評判你時，最糟糕的事情是什麼？

是的，這是正確的答案。

這沒有什麼關係。

3.過你自己的生活，而不是別人希望你過的生活。

不要根據別人對你的看法和別人希望看到你的方式來塑造你的生活。

Sarvesh Jain, Ph.D. Philosophy & Quotes and Quotations , World Records University (2016)

The art of talking.

When to talk

Whom to talk to

What to talk (content)

How much to talk

This art can be developed over time and can be implemented on many situations throughout life.

If you have a great idea but the time and the person (receiver) is not right, it won’t become anything.

If the time and person are great but the content is lacking structure, nothing will shape up again.

If the person and the content is in place but the time isn’t, nothing definite will happen again.

説話的藝術

什麼時候説話

跟誰説話

説什麼（內容）

要説多少

這種藝術可以隨着時間的推移而發展，並且可以在一生中的許多情況下實行。

如果你有一個好主意，但是時間和接受者都不對，那麼它不會成為什麼。

如果時間和人都很好，但內容缺乏條理，就不會再有什麼東西了。

如果人員和內容到位，但時間不到位，那麼就不會再發生任何確定的事情。