話題：你更喜歡朋友多一點還是朋友少一點？_風聞

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Answerow

On a personal level as well as on social level, I prefer just a few friends. There is a saying which says that ‘friends should be few and good one’. I follow that good adage. That apart personally, I don’t believe in having too many friends. It is because we should not waste our precious time unnecessarily with friends and we have to give some time to our personal life too. After all, I too have a life to look after and care about.

There is also a saying why a person’s life gets improved or spoiled is all because of friends. I strongly believe having too many friends will only waste your time and their time and nothing concrete would be achieved out of such friend’s circle. I know people who are spoiled because of their friends.

無論是在個人層面還是在社交層面，我更喜歡朋友少一點，有一句諺語説“朋友應該少而精”，我遵循這句格言。就我個人而言，我不希望有太多朋友，這是因為我們不應該在朋友身上不必要地浪費我們的寶貴時間，我們也必須給我們的個人生活一些時間，畢竟，我們也有自己的生活要照顧和關心。

還有一種説法，為什麼一個人的生活會得到改善或被破壞，都是因為朋友。我堅信擁有太多的朋友只會浪費你的時間和他們的時間，在這樣的朋友圈子裏不會有什麼實質的意義，我就知道有些人的生活因為朋友而被破壞了。

Ruthmongare

“Too many cooks spoil the brooth” same applies to someone when they have many friends. When you have many friends, the possibility of being influenced by peer pressure is very high. Each one of them will try bringing up different ideas into you head thus poisoning your brain.

It’s good to have few friends like 2 or 3 who are trustable and reliable and will always come at your rescue when you’re in need. Whenever it comes to friendship, don’t trust anyone 100% though. Some friends are just evil from inside and will be not show you. Their joy will be celebrating your downfall but whe they’re with you are good. Its advisable to hear your friends advises but don’t do what they tell you.

“太多的廚師會壞了一鍋粥”，這句話同樣適用於有很多朋友的人。當你有很多朋友時，受到同齡人壓力影響的可能性非常大，他們中的每一個人都會試圖把不同的想法帶入你的頭腦，從而毒害你的大腦。

有幾個朋友就挺好了，比如兩三個值得信賴和可靠的朋友，他們總是在你需要的時候出現在你的身邊。但凡涉及到友誼，不要100%相信任何人，有些朋友從內心就是邪惡的，不會向你展露出來，他們會為你的失敗而高興、慶祝，但是當他們和你在一起的時候，表面是好的，明智的做法是聽取朋友的建議，但不要照他們説的去做。

Keibah

I prefer to have just a few friends. I have a very close group of friends and I like it that way because I’m a very reserved person who likes to open up to Just a few. Still I have a lot of acquaintances and I like to keep it that way. I also think that as you grow older, some People will naturally leave your life.Other people feel it is good for them to keep in touch with a lot of friends.They enjoy the multitude. Especially those who intend to become public figures. They feel that keeping a lot of company will be in their best interest and security. I’d say whatever you are comfortable with is what you should be doing as long as relationships with others aren’t toxic.

我喜歡只有幾個朋友。我有幾個非常親密的朋友，我喜歡這樣，因為我是一個非常內向的人，更傾向於對很少的人敞開心扉。儘管如此，我還是有很多泛泛之交的朋友，而且我喜歡保持這種狀態，我還認為，隨着年齡的增長，有些人會自然而然地離開你的生活。

其他人覺得和很多朋友保持聯繫對他們有好處，他們喜歡人多的地方，尤其是那些想成為公眾人物的人，他們覺得和很多人在一起會使他們的利益和安全最大化，我想説的是，只要你和別人的關係不是有害的，你就應該做你覺得舒服的事情。

Poehere

I have always been a person who has moved around most of my life. It was hard for me to have a lot of friends and then I needed to say goodbye when I moved again. Over the years I’ve learned that having too many friends isn’t always the best for me. I like to have a handful of good friends that are there and I can count on them and they can count on me. When I was younger I loved to make friends with everyone. I thought it was great to have a lot of friends near me all the time. However, this was a very bad idea. In the end, it was basically me who ended up doing for them and they never gave anything in return.

You’ll find out as you grow older who is really a good friend and who isn’t. I feel it is best for me to have a few great friends around me than a ton of people who are just there to profit on me and get what they can. I like to have 3 or 4 good friends than 20 friends who don’t really care about me at all.

我是一個在我生命中大部分時間都在搬家的人。對我來説，有很多朋友很難，然後當我再次搬家時，我需要説再見。多年來，我瞭解到，有太多的朋友並不總是對我最好的，我更喜歡只有少數幾個好朋友，我可以依靠他們，他們也可以依靠我。我年輕的時候喜歡和每個人交朋友，我認為有很多朋友一直伴隨我身邊是件好事，然而，這是個非常糟糕的想法，最後，基本上是我最後為他們竭力付出，而他們卻從未給予任何回報。

隨着你年齡的增長，你會發現誰是真正的好朋友，誰不是。我覺得對我來説，身邊有幾個好朋友是最好的，而不是一大堆朋友卻只為了在我身上獲利，得到他們能得到的東西，我更喜歡3到4個真正的好朋友，而不是20個根本不關心我的朋友。

Grecy095

I only wish to have few friends which I have now. I have lots of friends, but I am not sure if they care about me like I care about them, so maintain to have two friends. I have two friends. We met August 24, 2007. We are celebrating our 15 years of friendship. They are my friends who have been with me through rough times. Some friends around me only know me if they need something, but these two best friends of mine, they are with me through good times and bad times. They treat my problems are their own and I am doing the same with them. If you will just keep a few friends with you, you get to know more about them intimately and the experience is the same with them too. You can be kind to lots of people but you cannot trust them all. You just need a few people that will love you and tht is enough.

我只希望有幾個我現在有的朋友。我有很多朋友，但我不確定他們是否像我關心他們那樣關心我，所以我與其中兩個保持較好的朋友關係，我們2007年8月24日認識，我們正在慶祝我們15年的友誼，他們是我的朋友，是陪我度過難關的朋友，我周圍的一些朋友只有在他們需要的時候才想起我，但我這兩個最好的朋友，一直陪伴着我，無論是艱難時刻還是快樂時光，他們把我的事當自己的事，我也在這樣對待他們，如果你只保留幾個朋友在身邊，你就會更深入地瞭解他們，，他們的經歷也是一樣的，你可以對很多人好，但你不能信任所有人，你只需要幾個愛你的人，這就足夠了。

Greencrayon

I prefer to have only a few friends whom I can rely on. Quality over quantity. You may ask yourself--do you prefer having broad acquaintances or a number of people you can call at 2:00 AM when you badly need a drink or just someone to talk to?

Also, truth is, even if you are in a group of people whom you have known for a couple of years, you cannot be in the same level of closeness with every single one of them. You will eventually develop deep connection with a few of them and some of them may not even be your friend till the very end, especially when both of you become distant for whatever reason.

I do believe that there is nothing worthy in sticking with people who do not (intend) to know you, your dreams, your quirks, your failures, etc.

我更喜歡只擁有幾個我可以依靠的朋友，質量高於數量，你可以問自己——你是更喜歡有一大堆泛泛之交的朋友，還是喜歡有一些可以在凌晨兩點在你急需喝一杯的時候陪你，或者在你只是想找個人聊聊的時候，你可以打電話的朋友？

另外，事實是，即使你是在一羣你認識了幾年的人中，你也不可能和他們每一個人都保持同樣的親密程度，你最終會和他們中的一些人建立起深厚的關係，其中一些人甚至可能直到最後都不會成為你的朋友，尤其是當你們因為某種原因變得疏遠的時候。

我確信，與那些不(打算)瞭解你、不瞭解你的夢想、不瞭解你的怪癖、不瞭解你的失敗等等的人在一起，實在是沒有什麼值得堅持的。

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Sprite1950

If I’m honest I have a lot of acquaintances but not many close friends and I like it that way. I would say I have only three friends that I would call close, people I know I can depend on and tell them secrets that I know they will keep. There are people who I thought I was close to and did many favours and then when I asked them to help me they didn’t want to know .. I realised then they were not true friends.

Most of the people I am close to I have known a long time, 30 years or more, and even though we have moved in different directions through marriage or moving away, we will always help each other out in times of need. To me that’s what true friendship means, someone who is always there for you and will move heaven and earth to help if they can.

説實話，我有很多交情淺的朋友，但是親密的朋友不多，我喜歡這樣。我會説，我只有三個朋友，我覺得是很親密的，我知道他們是我可以依靠的人，我可以告訴他們我的秘密，我知道他們會保守秘密。有些人我認為我和他們很親近，我也幫了他們很多忙，然後當我請他們幫助我時，他們卻不想幫我…..我意識到他們不是真正的朋友。

大多數與我關係密切的人我都認識很久了，30年或更久，儘管我們因為結婚或者搬家而走向不同的方向，但是在需要的時候我們總是會互相幫助，對我來説，這才是友誼的真正含義所在，一個永遠在你身邊的人，如果可以的話，他會竭盡全力幫助你。